A step-by-step guide to creating, negotiating, and finalizing agreements
Continuing from the Example Conversation, Luna and Nova are ready to create their first consent sheet together. Follow along to see how the feature works.
Step 1: Starting a Consent Sheet
Luna initiates a new consent sheet from their conversation.
Okay, I'm going to start a consent sheet for us. You'll see it appear in our conversation.
2:50 PM
Luna started a new consent sheet
Scene Negotiation
Negotiate and consent with Nova
0Total Items
0Agreed
0Negotiating
No items yet. Click the button above to add items to negotiate.
The Add Button: This single button is how you add items to negotiate. Click it to search for preferences or type a custom item name.
Step 2: Adding Items
Luna clicks the "Add Item to Negotiate" button and searches for their first item.
Add Item to Negotiate
Android/Robot PlayRoleplay & Scenarios
Voice/Speech ControlRoleplay & Scenarios
Luna added "Android/Robot Play" to the consent sheet
Android/Robot Play
Pending
Your Response:
Nova's Response:
⋯ Pending
💬 Discussion
Luna2:52 PM
I'd love to try a simple android activation scene. Let me know what you think!
Response Options:
Yes - I consent to including this
Negotiate - I want to discuss conditions
No - I don't consent to this
Step 3: Both Partners Respond
Luna clicks "Yes" and Nova responds with "Negotiate" to discuss specifics.
Luna responded "Yes" to Android/Robot Play
Nova responded "Negotiate" to Android/Robot Play
Android/Robot Play
Negotiating
Your Response:
Nova's Response:
⇄ Negotiate
Their note: I'm interested but want to make sure we keep it verbal only for now - no physical stuff yet.
💬 Discussion
Luna2:52 PM
I'd love to try a simple android activation scene. Let me know what you think!
Nova2:55 PM
I'm excited to try this! Just want to clarify - verbal commands only for this first time?
Luna2:56 PM
Absolutely! This will be entirely verbal/text-based. No physical contact at all. I'll add that as a separate item to make it official.
Discussion Threads: Each item has its own discussion thread. This keeps conversations organized and creates a record of what you negotiated.
Step 4: Reaching Agreement
After discussion, Nova changes their response to "Yes" and the item shows as "Agreed".
Nova changed response to "Yes" for Android/Robot Play
Android/Robot Play
Agreed
Your Response:
Nova's Response:
✓ Yes
Both agreed! Ready to lock in this item.
Step 5: The Complete Consent Sheet
Luna adds more items including safety protocols. Here's the full sheet ready to finalize.
6Total Items
6Agreed
0Negotiating
✓ All items agreed! You're ready to play.
Scene Activities
Android/Robot Play
Agreed
Luna: Yes ✓Nova: Yes ✓
Voice/Speech Control (simple phrases only)
Agreed
Luna: Yes ✓Nova: Yes ✓
Verbal commands only - no physical contact
Agreed
Luna: Yes ✓Nova: Yes ✓
Safety Protocols
Safeword: "Full system shutdown"
Agreed
Luna: Yes ✓Nova: Yes ✓
Check-in phrase: "Error - does not compute"
Agreed
Luna: Yes ✓Nova: Yes ✓
Scene length: 20-30 minutes, debrief after
Agreed
Luna: Yes ✓Nova: Yes ✓
Step 6: Finalized Agreement
Both partners click "Lock In" and the agreement is finalized.
Luna finalized the consent sheet
Nova finalized the consent sheet
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This is great - I feel so much clearer about what we're doing! When should we try our first scene?
3:15 PM
How about this weekend? We can review the consent sheet right before to refresh our memory on what we agreed to.
3:16 PM
Android/Robot Play
🔒 Finalized
🔒 Locked: Both agreed
Remember: A finalized consent sheet documents your agreement, but consent can always be withdrawn at any time. The document supports communication - it doesn't replace it.
Quick Reference
Status Colors
PendingWaiting for responses
NegotiatingDiscussion in progress
AgreedBoth said Yes
🔒 FinalizedLocked in
Tips for Good Consent Sheets
Be specific
"Hand holding only" is clearer than "light touching"