Finding and Adding Friends

Discover people, compare preferences, and connect through invite codes

There are two ways to connect with people on Consent Navigator: browsing public profiles to discover new people, or sharing invite codes with someone you already know. Both methods use invite codes to establish the friendship.

Method 1: Browse Public Profiles

Discover people who have made their profiles public, see how your preferences align, and reach out.

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Browse Profiles

Go to Browse in the navigation menu to see public profiles. You can search by name or location.

Browse Profiles
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Alex

they/them ยท Portland

Curious explorer, looking to learn and grow...

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Jordan

she/her ยท Seattle

Experienced and patient, happy to mentor...

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View Their Profile

Click on someone to see their full profile, including their bio, what they're looking for, and public preferences.

Profile View
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Jordan

she/her ยท Seattle ยท 28
Open Relationship

About Me

I've been in the community for 5 years and love helping newcomers feel welcome. I believe in open communication and taking things at a comfortable pace.

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Send a Message

Click Send Message to introduce yourself. Be genuine, mention what caught your attention, and ask questions!

Message Form
First Message Tips: Introduce yourself briefly, mention something specific from their profile, and be clear about what you're looking for. Avoid generic messages like "hey" - put in the effort!
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They Reply & Share an Invite Code

If they're interested, they can reply to your message. To become friends and unlock full features (comparing preferences, consent sheets, etc.), one of you generates an invite code.

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Hi! Thanks for reaching out. I'd be happy to chat! Here's an invite code so we can connect properly and see how our preferences compare: ABC12XYZ
3:45 PM
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Enter the Code

Go to Friends in the navigation, enter the code they shared, and click Connect.

Friends Page

Have an Invite Code?

Enter the code someone shared with you to connect.

You're Now Friends! Once connected, you can compare preferences side-by-side, start consent sheets, view each other's wardrobe and toybox, and message freely.

Method 2: Invite Someone You Know

Already know someone outside the platform? Generate a code and share it via text, email, or any other way.

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Generate an Invite Code

Go to Friends and use the "Invite Someone" section. Choose how long the code should be valid.

Friends Page

Invite Someone

Generate a code to share with a partner you want to connect with.

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Copy & Share Your Code

Your code appears in "Your Active Invite Codes". Click the copy button and share it however you like.

Your Active Invite Codes
XYZ98ABC
Expires: Feb 5, 2:30 PM
Share Securely: Send the code directly to the person you want to connect with. Codes are single-use and expire, so only share with people you trust.
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They Enter Your Code

The other person signs up (or logs in), goes to Friends, enters your code, and you're connected!

What Can You Do With Friends?

Once connected, you unlock powerful features for negotiation and exploration.

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Compare Preferences

See your ratings side-by-side. Find matches, discover new interests, and identify boundaries.

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Message Freely

Have full conversations with message history. Share preference cards directly in chat.

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Consent Sheets

Create formal agreements for scenes. Negotiate items, add notes, and finalize consent.

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View Wardrobe

Browse their clothing and gear collection. Great for planning outfits for scenes.

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View Toybox

See their toys and equipment. Discover what's available to play with.

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Generate Scenes

Use AI to create roleplay scenarios based on your mutual interests.

Privacy & Safety

๐Ÿ”’ Profile Visibility

Only public profiles appear in Browse. You control your visibility in Edit Profile.

๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ Blocking

You can block anyone at any time. Blocked users can't see your profile or contact you.

๐Ÿ—‘๏ธ Removing Friends

Remove a friend anytime from the Friends page. They won't be notified.

โฑ๏ธ Code Expiration

Invite codes expire automatically. You can also revoke them manually at any time.

Quick Reference

To Find New People

  1. Go to Browse
  2. View profiles that interest you
  3. Send a message to introduce yourself
  4. If interested, exchange invite codes
  5. Enter their code on the Friends page

To Invite Someone You Know

  1. Go to Friends
  2. Click Generate Code
  3. Copy the code
  4. Share it with them (text, email, etc.)
  5. They enter the code to connect